Did you ever date someone and you didn't make the cut? Red Flag"Italian/Swiss Guy with the Stripper Pole in his living room

I just saw the Italian/Swiss Guy, who has the stripper pole in his living room; he tells me he has the stripper pole because he's practicing he's an amateur fireman. We never broke up; I just moved. Did you ever date someone and you just didn't make the cut? The Italian/Swiss Guy comes to LA from Switzerland to visit and tells me he really needs to be dating a whore. Red Flag. Good to know he wants to date a whore. I'm thinking he could of just called me to tell me this. Then I thought why can't I be the whore; I never get to be the whore? Then I thought about it...way too much effort:) Italian/Swiss guy tells me most guys won't tell you they want to date a whore; he's being honest. He's acting as if he should win a gold medal for telling me this; how about no guy's ever told me this because it's a deal breaker...Italian/Swiss guy wants me to visit him in Hawaii. Red Flag. Not making the Cut...Good Times. Italian/Swiss Guy. Red Flag.